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How Successful Startup Founders Actually Meet


Most founders think the key to success is finding the perfect partner. The truth is, there’s no magic formula—only patterns that repeat. Founders who build together before raising, arguing, or dreaming tend to last longer.

The strongest teams don’t start from friendship; they start from shared work. Prior co-workers outperform “best friends” because they’ve already shipped together under pressure. You know who misses deadlines, who stays late, and who keeps their word. Trust built through results beats trust built through comfort.

Starting with friends feels safe, but it hides risk. You skip the hard talks about money, ownership, and accountability. Then one day, those talks explode. A short trial sprint before equity can save both your company and your friendship.

If you meet through accelerators or school, add structure. Daily standups. Weekly goals. Clear decision rules. Good teams don’t just get along—they get things done.

Ideas don’t fail because of bad markets. They fail because founders never wrote the rules. Before you pitch investors, test your partnership. Ship something small. Measure how you work.

The right co-founder isn’t the one who agrees with you—it’s the one who delivers with you. Read more

WHY YOUR TAM IS WRONG?

Most founders make the same mistake: they open their pitch with a multi-trillion-dollar “global market” number. Investors don’t buy it. They skip the slide and do their own math.

If you want to win, you need a real, bottom-up market size built on customers, usage, and pricing.



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Burak Buyukdemir

Entrepreneur, VC, and storyteller. I invest in early-stage startups worldwide, share candid lessons from 20+ years in tech, and spotlight founders shaping the future. Join 100,000+ readers each week.

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